Internet Blogger Kakensa has come out and advised old men with money to stop dating and marrying young girls who are still living their youthful lifestyle, basing on Sheikh Muzaata’s incidence who started dating his second wife at the age of 16 years who ended up dropping her. It is alleged that what caused the death of Muzaata is that he fell sick after his wife left the house and went.
Kakensa has said : Women can break even the hardest core men within seconds. I can’t imagine what Shiek Muzaata was going through the days close to his death. Let this teach us that not everyone who smiles is happy.
One friend once told me his child skipped two Primary school classes because he was too clever, I told him that was so bad. There is too much more to learn with his peers in those classes than the academics you people focus on. Academically he could be doing well but the social values are equally vital in life. People should not skip stages of life for any reasons.
This is why you see those who get mysterious money like Bryn White, Bad Black, Maddie 5 etc. failed to maintain it. One has to go the process of getting rich slowly by slowly to know how to maintain wealth. Likewise, when a man marries a young girl, he should know that, that girl has not gone through the natural way of being groomed. From childhood under the arms of your parents up to 16yrs, then they hand you over to a man as old as your father to be your husband. You realize that such a child skips some stages of exploration. Every woman should undergo the process of okukwanibwako abasajja abawera. Even if tabakkirizza, it gives her the confidence that she has value out there. That process of independence teaches every girl alot. To go to club or not to is her choice, to dethooth or not to is her choice, to snoke shisha or not to is her choice. Whoever goes through this and remains humble and reasonably respected by society, is a wife material.
When a girl skips that , there are greaters chances she will be a problem in marriage. These are the women easily swayed by Asikaris, Bobaboda men etc.
This is not about discussing this particular family but a lesson to those men intending to marry young girls, If you marry a young girl, be ready either to let her enjoy her youthful life with fellow youths while in your house or you yourself must turn younger and follow her to clubs, dance to Vinka’s songs, smoke shisha etc until she realises by herself that these do not benefit her.